Dera Sacha Sauda: Saving The Future Strengthening The Present…
The spiritual saints are the fountainhead of knowledge. Since all knowledge from God and true masters are forever in communion with God, there is no sphere of human activity where they cannot advise ordinary morals. The world today is awash with children going berserk and the parents increasingly clueless on how to handle them. But the monthly spiritual congregation in Sirsa brought forth a new gift from His Holiness Saint Gurmeet Ram Rahim Singh Ji Insan. His holiness spoke about how the values that are quint-essentially missing can be instilled in the coming generations. Saying Truth brings you His pious utterances on this topic.
Parents have a significant role to play in instilling the right values. When the woman becomes pregnant, the routine must ccommodate half an hour of meditation twice a day. And husbands must form a routine that the recorded spiritual discourses and spiritual Music must play in the house, benefitting both. Even in uteri, the powerful influence of spiritual music and discourses solidly shapes the values. The parents must ensure that they do not fight. They should be amiable and live amicably.
When the woman is pregnant, her diet must always be nutritious. Good doctors should be consulted and the minerals, vitamins etc that are required must beincorporated. Fasting should never be done. The roties and daal must be properly cooked . Good food eaten by the mother ensures strength and positive tendencies in the child. The examination must be done periodically, as medically advised.When the wife is pregnant, husbands should be particularly careful in not upsetting them even it means losing an argument.
After the baby is born, whenever the mother feeds the baby, she must keep on meditating. Good food for the mother during lactation is paramount since high quality of her milk must be ensured. It is wrong to be too conscious of the bodily image at that stage since the nutrition of the child is at stake. Even if the mother gains weight, she should accept it gracefully. When the child stops breastfeeding, then the mother can exercise and shape her body accordingly. The husbands should be extra careful especially about getting nutritious foods for the wife so that the baby is healthy. If the body is healthy, the thoughts are healthy and if the child is reared in a way that he meditates, he can certainly change society for the better. The lust, anger, worldly ttachment, greed, egoism, delusion, negativity, consumption and dishonesty prevalent in society can be uprooted by such a person. This is important for the coming generations. Parents use diapers for their children. Do not tie them up for the whole day. When the child is travelling, then it is OK. But at home, these things should not be used.This is unnatural. The child’s body parts need to row. Parents have a morbid dread of wetness. Pure cotton cloth should be used for the child to lie down upon. Loose filtering garments should be used so that the child does not feel constricted. When the child learns about how to speak, teach him the name of god. Teach him good things. But this is the domain of the creator 0f negativity- Kaal. Don’t teach negativity to children. Teach and discuss the name of God. The pre-formal education must be started at home. The rapidity and ease with which parents can teach cannot be equaled by teachers. At the appropriate age, the child must be sent to a good school. Listen to the child, but do ask teachers for their observations. Because after this , youth is going to dawn upon the child whose entire base is childhood. What you teach in childhood is something that will be a sheet anchor for the entire life. If it is a daughter, rear her to be a Strong person, she should not be a weakling. Impart noble values, treat your daughter equal to boys and give them equal love. Parents must always impart good teachings and if they make mistakes, teach them to accept their mistakes.